Ever seen Seventh Heaven? My mom is Annie Camdon going through menopause but 8 million times worse and REALLY likes it when men look at her.........any ideas as how to approach this...she's VERY touchy and this has gone on for about 4 years after she had a major weight loss and turned into a gorgeous teenager. But Annie at least took care of her family...my mom has pretty much turned her back on us. I HATE reaching out to strangers but there really is no one I can talk to...she used to be my confident but now she just brushes us away(me and my family)...help :(
haha...I know. I've tried...it changed nothing. They all agree. We want our old mom back. :(
Best answer:
Wtf with the bots above me. Anyways, try and hang out with your friends and other family members so that you have people to talk to besides her. Also, maybe your dad or you could tell her some of your worries.
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The Value of Caring for Employees/Followers
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Humbleness of spirit is important for an organization to meet its mission. Humble leaders place the goals of the organization above their own goals. Haughty leaders only look for how the organization can help them to achieve their own goals.
This humbleness does not mean poor in finances or ability. I know a wonderful man who, some time ago, retired from an international bank as senior vice-president (the number two spot in a multinational firm). He was certainly wealthy in terms of cash. He received lavish compensation during his career and invested excess earnings into a sizable fortune. He owned homes in both Seattle and Palm Springs and enjoyed playing golf all over the world.
All of this aside, the first characteristic that people attributed to this man was his humility. He listened to those who spoke, and placed the needs of others before his own needs. His employees remained incredibly loyal to him and spent many extra hours accomplishing the work of the organization because they delighted in serving with him rather than being mere tools for him to use and discard.
Similarly, the essence of excellent customer service is the subjugation of our own interest, feelings, and selfaggrandizementcustomers and employees by placing their own interests behind the interests of their clients and employees.
Sometimes, when you yield to another, you feel like you are losing something. But the paradox of Jesus' teaching is that even when you feel like you are losing, you are still winning. My banking friend was humble and consistently rose to the top. Blanchard's case studies describe people whose companies do well and improve daily. Clients flock to companies that delight them. Employees gravitate to humble leaders who treat them well.
Humbleness does not mean avoiding the limelight. After all, a great actor goes on stage to serve his customers and to delight his audience and he places his entire being into the performance. He feels satisfied if he does his best. If the audience feels satisfied enough to applaud, so much the better.
If the audience gives a standing ovation, he accepts it warmly and appreciatively, and the next morning, continues with rehearsal to ensure that he delights the next client. The applause is icing on the cake and is akin to the saying applause is icing on the cake and is akin to the saying "money follows ministry." If the actor sets out only to gain a standing ovation, he serves himself rather than others, and real, long-term success is doubtful. The paradox is fascinating; instead of trying to achieve, try to serve and delight, and success will follow; try to succeed for selfish gain and failure will follow.
"Great men suffer hours of depression through introspection and self-doubt. That is why they are great. That is why you will find modesty and humility the characteristics of such men. " -- Bruce Barton How much more could a humble leader accomplish with eight employees working hard to please him, compared to a haughty leader with eight employees who could care less if the leader lived or died?
Blessed is the leader who is poor in spirit, for his shall be the kingdom of heaven. I used to see The Beatitudes as separate elements or factors of agapao leadership. Each value had an equal weight. But as I have taught and consulted with organizations and used The Beatitudes in my consulting with leaders, I have noticed that the first Beatitude, "poor in spirit," seems to surface the most often.
The next most frequently occurring Beatitude is the Beatitude that we will look at next, mourning. The other Beatitudes seemed to occur with a relative frequency that matched the sequence of The Beatitudes as they occur in Scripture. How simple it seems that we have the main values stated for us and that The Beatitudes appear in the order of importance as well.
Leaders who are poor in spirit are frequently described as humble, teachable, and show respect for followers. But how does this apply to The Beatitude about mourning? Let's find out.
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